Joined Dec 2008
Clubs: 73
Reviews: 169

Male bartenders/waiters at a strip club

Last Comment: April 1, 2011

March 29, 2011 • Just wondering what do you guys think of male wait staff at a strip club? Do you turn around and walk out when you see a male bartender? I think it is usually a bad sign when you see one (staffing issues) but I will put up with it.


Joined Dec 2001
Clubs: 32
Reviews: 199

March 29, 2011 • I have never seen a male waiter. Don't think I would like it. I have seen male bar tenders. Usually with another who is female. I am OK with that.


Joined Apr 2009
Clubs: 26
Reviews: 33

March 29, 2011 • I never thought much about it one way or the other. I guess usually I see female bartenders, and always female wait staff (waitresses). I, of course, would prefer female bartenders, especially when they're as hot, or hotter, than the dancers. But I've seen enough males making drinks at SCs that it doesn't phase me.


Joined Sep 2000
Clubs: 35
Reviews: 89

March 29, 2011 • The last male bartender I saw was OK in my book. I paid for a single drink and had three. I have known him for about 15 years, but had just run into him at a club.


Joined Feb 2010
Clubs: 21
Reviews: 32

March 29, 2011 • Male bartender OK. Waiters rather than wiatresses, more unusual. Bear in mind that if the club had an absolute must be female rule on anybody other than the performers they would be open for sexual discrimination lawsuits.


Joined Apr 2009
Clubs: 68
Reviews: 98

March 29, 2011 • And conversely Sam, how about female bouncers?


Joined Dec 2008
Clubs: 73
Reviews: 169

March 29, 2011 • haha I heard the local female "bouncers" are strict and check up on you during LD so I try to avoid them.


Joined Apr 2007
Clubs: 19
Reviews: 24

March 30, 2011 • Bartenders I don't mind really. Waiters? I've never seen it but I think it would turn me off a bit.


Joined Mar 2000
Clubs: 48
Reviews: 149

March 30, 2011 • I've only been to one place that ever had a male waiter and he was essentially the bartender forced into it by the lack of a waitress that particular day. I've been to a few places that had male bartenders, and it never bothered me in any way. Often in those cases, they are management. I do remember one, though, who was openly gay.


Joined Jul 2001
Clubs: 49
Reviews: 124

March 30, 2011 • DandyDan, you met that one too. LOL. One gay bartender tried to pick me up once, I told him I'd be happy to pour VERY HOT coffee on his balls. Other than that, I prefer hot barmaids, but a male bartender is OK.


Joined Nov 2009
Clubs: 105
Reviews: 139

March 30, 2011 • I have no problems with male bartenders. In fact, I find that they are generally more generous in the "buy back" department than female bartenders.


Joined Jan 2008
Clubs: 18
Reviews: 53

March 30, 2011 • I'm used to male bartenders in SC's. Male waiter-I would have issues with. I might leave the club .


Joined Apr 2009
Clubs: 19
Reviews: 40

March 30, 2011 • Why would one care about the gender of the wait staff at all? As long as the dancers are female, what difference does it make who brings me a drink? It's not like one typically goes to a SC to see waitresses, after all. And why leave the club, especially? That makes no sense to me at all. Forgo groping naked women because the person who brings me NY drink is XY instead of XX? I don't think so.


Joined Dec 2007
Clubs: 31
Reviews: 71

March 30, 2011 • Male bartenders are okay. I prefer waitresses but I would not object to a waiter. However, if I see a male dancer, I'm going to figure I stumbled into the wrong kind of club.


Joined Aug 2002
Clubs: 11
Reviews: 44

March 30, 2011 • We want to see as many hot women as possible in the club, clothed, naked, dancing or waiting tables. A token male bartender is OK, especially if he has the right info on dancers.


Joined Apr 2009
Clubs: 17
Reviews: 85

March 30, 2011 • I've seen lots of male bartenders, but I can't ever remember seeing a male waiting tables in a SC. Wouldn't cause me to bolt if I did, though. Assuming he was hetero, I'd probably ask his advice on dancers.


Joined Nov 2009
Clubs: 34
Reviews: 80

March 30, 2011 • Not one person chimed in about Tijuana. In Tijuana, all the bartenders and waiters are men. This prevents any confusion.

If you are a woman in the club, you are a stripper.


Joined Jul 2004
Clubs: 38
Reviews: 60

March 30, 2011 • Seen plenty of male bartenders & busboys. No male waiters yet. No female bouncers yet.

I gotta get out more.


Joined Apr 2009
Clubs: 12
Reviews: 23

March 31, 2011 • I've never seen a male waiter, only bartenders. And all of them were assholes, while only about half the women bartenders are.


Joined Sep 2009
Clubs: 4
Reviews: 29

March 31, 2011 • if they're doubling as security, I guess it makes sense. after all, who's going to notice a problem quicker than someone working the tables? that said, only saw a guy working tables once, and he usually checked the dancers in and out of the private rooms. slow night, so they had him out clearing tables. he was a dick, so it worked for me.


Joined Aug 2010
Clubs: 10
Reviews: 11

April 1, 2011 • More women around = more pleasure. The ultimate setting, in my mind, is all the staff, management, and dancers are all women and having just the bouncers be men. When you have men working in valet, front door, bartender, and managment, the excitement drops down. This is all excluding male customers. Women should be over numbering the males in the club. I wouldn't feel comfortable if the only females around would be the ones doing the stage dances.

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