After their stripping days are over

Sunday, December 8, 2019 5:05 PM

I recently mentioned to a long time regular nearing the end of her career that I wouldn't see her after she quit stripping and her response was "Why not?". I know that sometimes a customer will become a boyfriend or sugar daddy but I'm twice as old as her, I'm not rich, and she's never offered me any extras outside the club so I don't think she would start now. So I'm not sure why she said that. Could she be thinking of having a nonsexual friendship that continues after she leaves? Has anyone had a relationship like that with a former regular after she quit stripping? If you did, what did the relationship consist of? Did you meet for dinner or some other social activity and if you did then how often? Did you call her on the phone or contact her by some form of social media and if you did how often? How long did the friendship last and if it ended then how did it end?

7 comments

Did she ask you about seeing her post dancing days, or did you just 'bring it up'? How'd the rest of the conversation go? Or was that it?

gSteph

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4 years ago

I have friends who stopped stripping who remained cool with patrons. Believe it or not you become a type of like family to some strippers.

Lovelyeast

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4 years ago

My ATF and I had a "relationship" for over six years after she quit dancing, until her untimely death earlier this year. I think it would have lasted for the rest of my life in some form. She's not the only one with whom I've retained some level of contact. Do I consider us typical? Hell no. I can't imagine that it's all that unusual for dancers and customers to at least maintain contact for a while.

georgmicrodong

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4 years ago

I find it odd - if a dancer wants to have a relationship after we’ve done some non extras in the club. I’m not that interested in having a real relationship otc with most dancers.

Cashman1234

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4 years ago

I’ve currently got two former dancers that I’m in touch with 4 or 5 times a week primarily by text. One uses Snapchat and I’m not that comfortable with SnapChat. Both “relationships” involve money but I’m 40 years older than the 34 year old a d 47 years older than the 27 year old. The 34 year old lives with her BF 1200 miles away and I’m breaking things off. Her BF is a typical stripper BF -can’t keep a job, smokes weed, is a former prisoner and is an addict in recovery (sometimes). She also bounces from job to job and hasn’t had steady income. They have produced a great deal of porn and they talk about doing stuff but never get it done. The 27 year old has 2 very young kids, has a job at $13 an hour with potential to get up to $17.00. I used to do OTC regularly with her 3 or 4 years ago but she tracked me down recently and while I like her and fully understand she tracked me down looking for money it’s not blatant, however I’m in the process of learning about a couple of other older gents who she’s getting $ from and an age appropriate BF who she’s fucking, so I hav3 no idea if I’ll keep sniffing around her or not. My age difference with both is more substantial than yours and as a result it’s clear they’re seeing me for money.

gawker

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4 years ago

Yes I have kept in touch as friends with a few.

PaulDrake

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4 years ago

I am still a Facebook friend with a few retired dancers.

jackslash

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4 years ago

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