Approaching a dancer
Sunday, July 8, 2018 1:50 PM
I saw a dancer sitting with a couple guys at the bar for a long period without them buying any lap dances from her. Finally I approached her and told her if she wasn't busy while I was there I would buy some lap dances from her. She said she would be over after she finished her drink. When she came over, just out of curiosity I told her I wasn't sure I should approach a dancer when she is with someone and is it ok. She said that she was just sitting at the bar talking to a couple of friends who weren't there to spend money and unless she was at a table with a guy she didn't mind being approached. It often seems to be an ambiguous situation to me on whether to approach someone. I don't want to get a guy angry because I'm interrupting his conversation with a stripper or get a girl angry because she's working on getting money out of a guy but if there are a lot of girls just passing time hanging out with their friends in the club I don't want to miss out on doing dances with them by not approaching them. What is your experience with approaching girls for lap dances who appear to be talking with someone? Have you learned to tell in what situations that is acceptable and what are the signs?
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