Asking Waitress Out

Be incredibly good looking, wealthy, and and charismatic, because, like dancers, waitresses really don't want to date the average club customer. If just tipping a lot worked, then we'd all be dating hot strip club waitresses.

I have a simple strategy for gettin’ the top shelf pussy: be a rick. Won’t work for most of y’all. Works for me and the dugan and that’s good enough for me. ROAR!!!

I’m 1/1 with asking a SC waitress out. Was in a Dallas SC about 10 years ago. Very cute 20-21 girl that I got flirty and handsy with. She reciprocated and ended up back at my hotel for four rounds of fun, a shower and some scratches on my back from her pulling me into her. We communicated again on my next visit to town but it didn’t work to get back together. I got a little frisky with the bartender at Roxy’s in E. St Louis bar side but she wasn’t hot enough to take to next level

Wat C.M.I said. I've only gotten a waitress out of the club a handful of times in 40 some years of clubing, and it wasn't for dating.

It's subjective... to a degree.

What CMI said. One woman's 6 might be another's 8, but no woman's 3 is another's 8.

treat her like a civie.

I've seen some waitresses that don't look so good. Generally speaking, if your sexual market value is higher than hers you have a good chance with her. However, most high value guys can pick up women anywhere. There is no reason to focus on waitresses over anyone else.

Just be friendly and not a creep. It helps if you're friends with the other waitresses. At the club I frequent, you can buy off the waitress for $100/hr. That just gets her off the clock. Better to just offer her $100 for dinner. I've been to dinner with many waitresses. I would say they are more receptive to a dinner date than your average Hooters girl or Olive Garden girl. They see and acknowledge regulars more IMHO. Sex is a whole other thing though.

^ This rick would like to suggest an alternative to the “be friendly and not a creep” idea. Specifically, I think you should track her down and donate to her kids’ school in her name. Then find her house and jack it in the bushes outside her bedroom window. I know this sounds daring and perhaps even a bit psycho, but you will bring joy to the world when people view the video of you getting tased in the nuts by a cop. So it will all work out. ROAR!!!

The same way you pick up any other woman. Confidence, SMV(as someone else mentioned), a well-timed joke, compliment outside of something to do with her body or how attractive she is, and just showing that you aren’t thirsty/desperate/smitten, etc. it’s a science, but definitely not rocket science.

The waitresses are all BS man trust me. Even the strippers are better I'd invest time on them even more at that point. I mean they're cool and all they're talk to you without expecting much of a tip since they're not dancers, they're more like a real chick ur picking up, they don't beg for money as much like the dancers. But I've had experience they talk they're cool and everything I've got a number or 2 but bike really follow through or they're not down. To them it's just like a job at any other place or bar, they know your already a Chad at a strip club paying for other girls, it's just too much going on man, they don't care for most men there.

*like they don't really go all the way or follow up with it

Early 2000s, I'm at Matthews in Tyngsboro, Mass, (Closed since like 2004) a Sunday night, I'm with my buddy. He is dating a dancer who is working, I cute waitress I barely know is working. We get up to leave, to go my place 25 to 30 min away. Waitress says she can get out of work and come too!?!? ok cool. again, didn't really talk to here before. She follows, we all go into my apt. My friend and his girl wants to eat to they leave to go to Dunkin's. It's me and waitress on my couch, She mentions, she's great a head. I tell her I bet she can't make me cum. We go to bedroom, she's great but I'm buzzed, She blows me, using hand, spitting like it's a porno, My friend lets himself in, realizes we are in bedroom, says, bye. Probably 30 min in. I win. She stops. I didn't blow my load. She got up and left I never saw her again. She was married too.

I went out with a waitress, the way I always do. How was I to know she was with the Russians too?

All I know is if she compares you to her brother, you are not in the zone

Trolls galore on this site now. Inflation must be forcing them to resort to hibernating in mommy’s basement and playing World of Warcraft/ trolling on obscure SC review sites. Thank you oh blessed founder for the mute button.

Dustyhawkins is the biggest troll now.

I'm talking real and being serious. U guys are the real trolls having no life other than fck with people and talk shit. You guys are older mature men still acting like faggot little 16 year old high school kids all on their Instagram and Facebook messaging and talking shit. Come on seriously guys you have nothing better to do, than to talk shit and be a troll on the Internet. That's the real troll I'm trying to be real and talk strip club Stop acting like a POS high schooler who's cool who's popular being a dick to people online grow up fucking 40 50 year olds whatever

^ Dustyhawkins, did you know we can see you liked your own post? That doesn't help your claim that you're not a troll. Just sayin'.

My ATF gets asked out almost daily. It gets old. They're there to WORK (i.e. make money) not find a boyfriend.

Best approach is to just go to bar/restaurant and allows things to progress naturally. Asking out a waitress during one of your initial interactions is a bit creepy and common/frequent. I'm certainly no high-value guy, but I somehow pulled a bartender and waitress years ago, with simply relying on natural progression. And THEY initiated things.

Unless you're super hot/rich/charismatic (credit goes to Ishmael for calling out these traits)....for example, one of the Ricks.....it's likely not going to be worth your time to try to pull a waitress, particularly at a strip club, and that's particularly true for pulling a girl for normal dating. Also ask yourself if you can handle having her subjected to daily pickup attempts at work. Most guys can't handle that...which is why most limit themselves to playtime-only activities with club girls (dancers and waitresses. The IDGAF mentality is best when dealing with these girls. If you want a normal dating situation, fo to mainstream places and allow things to progress more naturally. Of course, some guys have bigger balls than me....one girl told me that she was approached at a mall and asked for her number, while she was with her kids. So, some of y'all have some game.